11.22.2007 at 10:23 pm
relatively perfect
anyone who tells you that their marriage is perfect, probably has a boyfriend or girlfriend on the side. and if you think you know someone who has a perfect marriage... i promise. if that person was absolutely honest with you, they would tell you that their marriage is far from perfect.
my point is... there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. it's sorta like belonging to a normal family. what is normal anyway?
it's relative.
same way with perfect. it's relative. what's perfect for me may not be perfect for you. and vise-versa. and what is perfect one day, might not be perfect the next. life is change. every day, every second of our lives involve change.
the trick is to figure out when to embrace the change or to stand against it with all of your heart.
i love that people around me look at my life and think how beautiful things are. actually... i revel in it. even if it isn't true, and people really pity me (which, i can't think of a reason they would) i am apparently oblivious to it, therefore it doesn't matter.
but.
i do want a few people (and if you are reading this and i have struck a nerve, then it's probably YOU) to go back and really read this blog. because then you will see that happiness sometimes doesn't come from luck. it takes hard work. it takes TWO people who want the same thing in the end. and even then... when you think you are happy...
change happens again.
and you learn to deal with it. you learn to let things bring you together instead of pull you apart.
loving someone is the easy part.
living with them is the hard part.
:)
xoxo
tell me i'm beautiful...
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